I Was Taught A Valuable Lesson Last Night - There's More To Life Than PTSD

I know, a shocker, right?  Well, the last 24 Hours taught me a thing or two.  In the middle of the afternoon yesterday, I started having some chest congestion.  I didn't think anything of it.  My allergies had given me post nasal drip the day before.  It was only logical that some of that would be working its way out.  By dinner, I could barely breathe - every breath was labored.  I thought, 'just an anxiety attack - it'll pass'.  Next thing I know, I'm delirious and on my to the emergency room.  The immediate assessment - Reactive Airway Disease...A generalized term that covers all respiratory maladies from bronchitis to COPD.  I am sitting here typing this on the hospital bed, thinking about the fact that the doctors are steering away from making a prognosis - that is never a good sign.
When you get a potentially life-threatening physical malady like whatever the hell I have, it makes you take stock of the things that have happened recently in your life:  What I realized is that I had been living my life 'in spite of' my PTSD.  My life decisions were always made around how my PTSD would handle it - putting the PTSD squarely in my central focus.  The outcome:  stressing myself out about everything, striving to keep my PTSD under control.  The stress levels got so high that I started shutting out my family from how I was feeling. Now you pile all of this stress and worry on top of all that and what do you have?  Epiphany.

Epiphany.  The realization that stressing out how I was going to react to any given situation based on my past experiences was like creating a self-fulfilling prophecy.  All of my worst nightmares with my PTSD were coming true because I walked on eggshells around my PTSD.  NO MORE!
I SWEAR:
-My PTSD no longer controls my strings:  If my PTSD has caused me issue in that situation before, it will be duly noted but my fear of my PTSD will not stop me from putting myself out there.
-If life has more unwelcome surprises in store for me I will not spend my precious family time wrapped up in an acronym.
-This health scare has galvanized my will to fight - to be the man I know I am.  I will openly recognize my limitations, communicate these limitations to my VA docs, and move forward, confident that the choices I make are the best for my long-term well-being.

I have the energy and emotional fortitude to get one thing right in all of this:  ME.  If I can figure me out, well...That's all I need to do to be the husband my wife deserves and the father my daughter needs.